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Seven Strategies to a Successful Sober Holiday

Seven Strategies to a Successful Sober Holiday

The smell of turkey in the oven and the roar of the football game on TV. The twinkly lights on the trees and the anticipation of grandparents coming to visit. Ah yes, the holiday season is arriving. For most it’s a time of joy, love, laughter, and the sharing of embarrassing family stories around the dinner table. However, for those in recovery, it’s possibly a time of anxiety, dread, fear, overthinking, isolation, and avoidance. Whether this is the first holiday in sobriety or the thirtieth, it's a time to be cautious. The holidays are the few months of the year where triggers, cravings, and relapse are at their highest. First, if you are clean and sober, I want to congratulate you! You are one of the few who has managed to overcome the cunning, baffling, and powerful disease of addiction. 1 day, 30 days, 1 year, or 40+ years - any amount of time is to be celebrated and acknowledged. Why is maintaining sobriety so challenging over the holidays and what are some strategies Read more [...]
The Power of Counseling: Unlocking the Benefits for Elementary Kids

The Power of Counseling: Unlocking the Benefits for Elementary Kids

Elementary school is a crucial time in a child's life, where they develop essential skills, build friendships, and begin to navigate their emotions. However, not all children sail smoothly through these formative years. Some may encounter challenges that affect their well-being and hinder their overall growth. This is where counseling steps in as a powerful tool, providing elementary kids with the support they need to thrive. Let's explore the benefits of counseling for these young minds. 1. Emotional Well-being: Elementary children often struggle to express and understand their complex emotions. Counseling offers a safe space where they can freely explore their feelings and learn healthy coping mechanisms. By working with a trained counselor, kids develop emotional resilience, becoming better equipped to handle stress, anxiety, anger, and grief. This emotional well-being lays a solid foundation for their future mental health. 2. Improved Academic Performance: A child's Read more [...]
A Perspective on Teens and Young Adults in Counseling (Part 1)

A Perspective on Teens and Young Adults in Counseling (Part 1)

A Quick Story of Realization with Counseling Teens When it comes to counseling teens, I remember early in my counseling career I was assisting a client through a break-up. While I was asking questions about the split, he smirked and said, "It's way harder breaking up these days. When you were in high school, it was easy." My first reaction was to wonder how old he thought I was. My second reaction was explaining that breaking up was still brutal back then. However, I soon realized he was spot on after we further explored his thoughts. High school breakups in 2020 are much more difficult to navigate. When I had conflict with anybody- friend, crush or significant other -I only had to awkwardly pass them in the hallway. Worst case, I had to choose a seat on the other side of the room. I didn't have to worry about blocking them on social media. I didn't have to worry about if they would find out that I blocked them. Nor did I worry about getting a "snap" or text from one of their friends Read more [...]
When It Might Be Time to Seek Counseling

When It Might Be Time to Seek Counseling

There is nothing wrong with seeking counseling. When we go the gym, we are praised for taking the initiative to work on our fitness. When we are physically injured, we are advised to take the necessary steps to heal-- rest, ice, heat, stretch, etc.  Yet, when we are struggling with an emotional or mental health issue, we feel funny about telling people. Ironically, a battle with a mental health concern can cause some serious physical manifestations. It's almost inexplicable how little we have valued our mental health as a society throughout...well...ever!  It's not until recently that people in the community, including celebrities and athletes, are having serious discussions about mental health.   But how do I know if I should seek counseling? One of the first questions I ask a new client is: "Have you ever been in counseling before?" Regardless of a "yes" or "no" response, I follow it up with my next question. "How long have you been thinking about getting in to talk to somebody?"To Read more [...]
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